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For Children. “Why do I feel sick?”

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If you are being bullied you might wonder why you feel so unwell all the time. There could be lots of reasons why you don’t feel well, and if you don’t feel alright it is important that you tell a grown up and ask for help, and maybe the grown up will take you to a doctor if that is what is needed. Even though there might be different reasons that you don’t feel well, some of them might be to do with the bullying. Have you ever fallen over when running or hurt yourself riding a bike or bumped into something? Your body would have felt pain, and maybe you had some bleeding or got a bruise. Our bodies allow us to feel pain so that we can know that something has gone wrong and so that we can rest the bit that has…

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Am I welcome here?

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Hi there, and welcome 🙂

If you’ve been bullied it is understandable if you feel a bit scared or nervous, or wonder if you belong. You might even wonder if you are welcome here. Let me reassure you that I am so very glad that you found this safe place online, and are looking for help. If you are nervous, just know that no matter who you are, I think that you are very important, and you will only find support, kindness, care, respect and love here. This is a safe place for you and you are definitely welcomed and cared for here. I am a ‘grown up’ and I was bullied as a child. Now that I am an adult I want to help kids and teenagers (and adults) who are still going through bullying or the effects of bullying because I…

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For Children. “When you wonder if it is your fault”.

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If you have been bullied it can be very confusing. When people are unkind to us, it can feel really horrible inside. And sometimes because we feel so bad, we might think that there is something very wrong with us that makes people treat us that way. When lots of people say the same bad things about us or do bad things to us we might believe that those bad things about us are true.

When I was little I believed that the bad things people said about me were true. Being treated so badly made me feel horrible inside and so I thought I was horrible and somehow it was my fault, that I wasn’t good enough, that there was something wrong with me. Those feelings can be so strong and last a long time that we find it hard to believe that…

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