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For Children and Parents. “A Happiness Box”.

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Sometimes when we are sad and confused it can be difficult to know what to do to feel better. It is a good idea to have something to cheer us up when we don’t feel so good. Why don’t you ask a grown up to help you create a “Happiness Box”. You could decorate a shoe box, or use a colourful toy box, or find somewhere you can put some special things in. So, what should go in your box? Something comforting, like a soft toy, maybe a game that you could play, or some colouring in books and pens and pencils. You could ask someone who cares about you, whether that is a mum or dad, big brother, sister, cousin, aunt, uncle, friend, or teacher to help you write down some kind things about yourself to encourage you when you feel sad. They could even write a letter or a note to you that you can keep in your “Happiness Box” for you to read whenever you need to hear some kind words about yourself. You could also ask them to help you find some nice pictures, drawings, photographs, or something cheerful to keep in your box. Maybe even a sweetie or a chocolate too! This will be your own special box, just for you, filled with some of your favourite things to help cheer you up when you need help finding your smile 🙂

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Am I welcome here?

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Hi there, and welcome 🙂

If you’ve been bullied it is understandable if you feel a bit scared or nervous, or wonder if you belong. You might even wonder if you are welcome here. Let me reassure you that I am so very glad that you found this safe place online, and are looking for help. If you are nervous, just know that no matter who you are, I think that you are very important, and you will only find support, kindness, care, respect and love here. This is a safe place for you and you are definitely welcomed and cared for here. I am a ‘grown up’ and I was bullied as a child. Now that I am an adult I want to help kids and teenagers (and adults) who are still going through bullying or the effects of bullying because I know how bad it can feel, and how confusing it is to try to understand what is happening to you. Even if you don’t know what to do or who to talk to, you can come here and find encouragement and advice. Please know that you are very important and special and nobody has the right to make you feel bad. I hope to share with you some of the things that helped me, and encourage you that there is help for you and you matter.